Ever wondered what a man really wants in bed, or what impresses men the most in bed?
Men can also be relatively hard to understand. It can be quite challenging to read the innermost feelings or emotions of men during sex as they appear to be quite simple and easy to be satisfied.
But there are a few secrets that if you knew, you’ll always leave men helplessly satisfied and impressed.
Want to make him always beg for help?
Here is a sneak peek at what he’s secretly craving for you to know…
1. You don’t have to be too shy
You’re naturally self-aware and can’t help but get shy, nervous, or anxious about little things like being sweaty before or after the deed has been done.
If only you knew that men don’t actually care about such things which are supposed to occur naturally, you won’t be putting a lot of pressure upon yourself.
Come on, after an explosive and satisfying session of sex do you think we will be bothered by little and insignificant things like that?
Of course, we won’t. Hence, there’s no point worrying about unimportant things.
2. You can also initiate or set the ball rolling
Waiting for him to always initiate sex even when you’re on heat, is simply an act of self-punishment.
Chances are sex might not be on his mind and he just needs you to register or implant it like a ticking bomb in his mind and within a short time, his desires and enthusiasm will explode leading to hot rounds of sex.
As Bob Alaburda of yourtango.com puts it, “If you’re in the mood, but he’s not acting, go for it.”
As Bob said, there’s no point waiting for him to act accordingly when you can turn on the switch and be mutually satisfied.
Besides, men find women who are courageous enough to go for what they want attractive and sexy.
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3. Touch yourself seductively
Don’t you think exams and classroom tests will be easier if students are always given areas of concentration?
After all, they’ll get to channel all their energy on what really matters leaving the unimportant aspects.
If you do, you’re not far from the truth…
Because leaving students to guess where to expect in either tests or exams will make things difficult and tough for them.
In the same way, letting your man guess how you’ll like to be touched, caressed, and rubbed in other to be fully turned on, is simply unattractive.
It’s quite okay, for students to figure out things by themselves because education is usually expected to be tough and difficult.
But it’s a different thing entirely if you make things difficult for your man behind closed doors.
Hinting your man on how and where to caress and where your sensitive areas are is really attractive and enticing.
According to Cosmopolitan, “Watching a confident woman fully connect to her sexuality is a huge turn-on for us, ” says Mendez.
The best part?
When you direct your man towards how exactly you like to be touched, he won’t have to waste his time chasing the winds.
4. You are free to take total control
If you aren’t dominating or taking complete control of some sexual encounters, you’re missing out.
A woman that knows how to leave her man breathless by aggressively and fiercely dominating her man completely during sex, is a secret prayer of a lot of men.
A lot of men are secretly dying to be helplessly dominated in bed and forced to beg for help.
The bottom line?
When a woman dominates her man in bed, she revives the excitement and enthusiasm and even assists him if he’s tired.
5. Don’t forget the importance of communication
Communicating effectively during sex ensures maximum satisfaction of both parties.
What’s more, you don’t need to guess what your partner wants or wonder if you’re getting it right.
That’s why men are dying to be with women who make things easier for them, women who are confident enough to communicate their sexual needs, and women who aren’t afraid to say what’s uncomfortable or doesn’t work for them.
And if you always choose to communicate your needs instead of faking or pretending to enjoy something you don’t enjoy, you’re certainly a role model.
Because you don’t allow your partner(s) to waste time doing something that isn’t beneficial to anyone.
“To have great sex, you have to talk about it—even during it” ~ Laurie Mintz Ph.D
6. You don’t have to be self-conscious about how groomed you are
When someone is too self-conscious or preoccupied with how bad their body is or how badly groomed they are during sex, chances are, they’ll miss out on their partner’s and their own desires.
Worse, when you dwell in anxiety about your physical imperfections, how perfectly groomed you are, or how you taste down there, you’ll have a less than ideal sex life.
We all are humans and are also imperfect in so many ways, there’s no point getting yourself worked up over your shortcomings, perhaps it’s the mirror that needs to be fixed.
And if you’re bothered by how perfectly groomed you are or scared that men might find you irritating down there, you don’t have to because it’s pointless.
As long as you take care of yourself and practice good hygiene, you are good to go. Besides men are logical and won’t try to go down if it doesn’t seem like it’s safe.
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7. Satisfy His Fantasies
It’s really sexy, desirable, and satisfying to have a woman who cares enough to learn about her man’s sexual dreams and fantasies, and tries to fulfill them.
Nothing beats having one’s naughty dreams that are dancing in his head being brought to life.
Giving life to his dirty dreams blows his mind and leaves him with no choice but to return the favor and hold on to you as much as he could.
Every man has his own sexual fantasy whether it’s making out on the beach at night or cabana, no two men are the same. You just have to ask him.
Whether you’ve been married for long, just tied the knot, or just started dating, when he tells you and you make every effort to satisfy that naughty dream of his, your sex lives will take a new dimension.
8. Take Things Slowly
Just like you might like to enjoy every bit of tasty and yummy food, men also desire to savor, experience, and enjoy every bit of pleasure of a hot sex session.
Just like you might like to take your time, eat slowly, and take notes of the taste, texture, and aroma of the delicious food, men also love to explore and feel everything to the fullest.
And the best way to help a man enjoy every bit of lovemaking? Is by taking things very slowly.
For example, while giving him a blow job, he’ll be left breathless if you slowly send him in and out.
According to cosmopolitan, “Once you’re done teasing him you can go full throttle, but in the beginning, a light technique goes a long way.”
9. Do let us know if you’re not in the mood
The worst thing a man can ever wish for is to make out with a woman who seems uninterested or indifferent during sex.
Instead, a man will deeply appreciate a woman who sets him ablaze with her desire, willingness, and enthusiasm.
Because it’s completely disappointing and even insulting to make love to an indifferent or even boring woman.
The bottom line?
If you aren’t in the mood, please don’t hesitate to let us know. Period!
Nobody wants to indulge in something that looks like forced sex.
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Final Thoughts
For sure, it’s pretty easy to be left confused as you wonder if your man’s needs are truly met.
The truth is, men are bound to be appreciative of a partner that doesn’t make things difficult for them and corporates with them to make every sex experience an explosive one.
Are you ready to make him beg for help?
John Emmanuel is a results-obsessed relationship blogger and founder of Top Love Hacks, dedicated to helping you level up your dating and relationship game by motivating you to be in control of your love life.
