Love Hacks

Nobody warns you about this. We grow up believing that only narcissists play this dirty game called future-faking—making empty promises about the future to keep you trapped in the present. But here’s the brutal truth: even the sweetest, nicest, most loving people can future-fake you. I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it. Maybe you have too. … Read more

You don’t miss your ex. Let that sink in. You miss what they represented. And that’s why you feel so stuck—haunted by thoughts, old texts, and imaginary future memories that never happened. I’m going to tell you the truth about why you still miss them. It’ll hurt. But it’ll also free you. Ready? Let’s go … Read more

Let’s break a spiritual lie that’s ruining lives. Not all twin flames are good for you. In fact, some of the most toxic, narcissistic relationships are hiding behind the pretty, Instagram-worthy label of “Twin Flame.” I know. Because I was there. I lost two years of my life waiting for signs from the universe while … Read more

Most people think cheating is a one-time act of betrayal. Some hotel room mistake. Some weak moment on a trip. That’s a lie. A safe, clean narrative we tell ourselves so we don’t have to look deeper. Because the real truth? Cheating begins long before the bedroom. It starts in the soul. In the micro-decisions, … Read more

Most people don’t fall out of love. They just forget how to show it. Love doesn’t die from screaming matches. It dies from silence. From two people sleeping back to back, thinking, How did we get here? From unanswered texts that were once sweet nothings. From dinners eaten in silence while your souls beg for … Read more

It’s not love. It never was. But shame? Shame will convince you it is. Shame doesn’t come in screaming. It whispers. It hides behind every “maybe I can fix this” and every “but they weren’t always like this.” The truth is, you don’t end up with a narcissist because you’re stupid or weak. You end … Read more

Let’s get this straight: undefined relationships are emotional torture. You think it’s harmless. That you’re just “feeling things out”. That the ambiguity gives you freedom. But what you’re actually doing is burning your time and bending your worth around someone who isn’t brave enough to give you clarity. This isn’t about being clingy or moving … Read more

We think narcissism lives on a spectrum. That some people are just a bit selfish and others are full-blown monsters. But neuroscience says: It doesn’t work like that. This isn’t personality science. It’s raw brain data. And the deeper you look, the more disturbing it gets. I’m not here to cancel people or slap labels … Read more

You think she’s stupid for staying. You think she’s blind. You think she doesn’t see the bruises—on her skin, on her spirit, on her soul. But she sees them. She just doesn’t leave. Not because she’s weak. Not because she’s naïve. But because somewhere deep inside her, she’s been trained to equate pain with love. … Read more

We wait for the cheating. The big blowout. The final straw. The smoking gun. But long before your brain admits it, your body is already screaming the truth. You just stopped listening. We’ve been taught to rationalize pain. To be strong. To tough it out. But what if your body has been waving red flags … Read more