We’ve Been Lied To About What Turns Us On They told us sex would be just like the movies. Perfect lighting. No stumbles. Everyone moans like a porn star and finishes in a symphony of sweaty, synchronized bliss. Except… that’s a lie. Sex, in the real world, is awkward as hell sometimes. The moves that … Read more
Most people have sex. Few ever learn to play with fire. We’re told sex is about moves and positions and timing. Bullshit. It’s words — raw, primal, whispered in the right moment — that make him forget his own name. Not loud porn lines. Not endless “oh gods” choreographed like a cheap script. I’m talking … Read more
Ever wondered what a man really wants in bed, or what impresses men the most in bed? Men can also be relatively hard to understand. It can be quite challenging to read the innermost feelings or emotions of men during sex as they appear to be quite simple and easy to be satisfied. But there … Read more
Let me say this loud and clear: Horniness is not the enemy. But losing control to it? That will silently wreck your confidence, your focus, your fire. We don’t talk about this enough. Especially as men. We joke about it. We meme about it. But when you’re alone in your room, scrolling, fantasizing, and pretending … Read more
Here’s the truth nobody tells you about sex with a new woman: You’re not fighting your body. You’re fighting your mind. It’s not about skill. It’s not about size. It’s not even about her. It’s about the weird, brutal, silent rules you carry into the bedroom… and how they strangle your confidence without you even … Read more
Let’s start with a hard truth: Most people have never had real sex. I’m serious. They have had polite, silent, safe sex. The kind of sex you can whisper about in church. The kind of sex your parents wouldn’t blush to imagine. But they’ve never had mind-twisting, soul-splitting, rules-breaking sex. And once you taste that … Read more
Most people don’t have a sex life. They have a replay button with lube. It’s the same three moves. The same two positions. The same orgasm — or no orgasm — wrapped in awkward silence and “Did you finish?” And then they wonder why passion dies. Let me tell you the truth nobody else will: … Read more
Let’s rip the Band-Aid off. Most people talk about orgasms, toys, and kinkier positions before they talk about pubic hair. Which is wild. Because this one topic quietly affects how people feel about their bodies. Their shame. Their pleasure. Their ability to be seen. And almost no one talks about it until it becomes a … Read more
Most guys think foreplay starts with their hands. They’re wrong. It starts with your mouth. Not just lips. Words. Not flowers. Not candles. Not a damn neck rub. That’s what they told you would work. And maybe it kind of does. If she’s already halfway in love with you. But if you want to light … Read more
Let’s get one thing straight: Porn has lied to you. And not in a small, innocent, oops-kind-of-way. I mean big, reality-bending, confidence-destroying lies. Lies that sneak into your bedroom and whisper, “You’re doing it wrong.” Lies that make you feel broken when you’re not. Lies that poison your relationships with fake expectations, porn-star performances, and … Read more